Questions Around Love

Do we have to feel utter, unbridled love for ourselves before we can reasonably expect that kind of love from another person? Can we as humans--these beautiful,radiant reflections of the base and the exalted--find someone to love us unconditionally even if our inner landscape is pocked with self-doubt and uncertainty? This process of becoming is eternal, and I wonder for myself how much becoming I have to undertake before I am ready to love and be loved fully, fearlessly. I'm curious and interested: what do you think about love...